Despite the stereotypes, neither he nor I are drug addicts (I’ve actually never touched a drug in my life, beyond alcohol) and we actually don’t play with others together or separately. I was able to accept what he did because I’m not a prude and am able to separate sex from love and intimacy.
You have to understand that porn is just a job. We met through mutual friends and as I don’t follow porn, I didn’t know who he was nor what he did when we first met, but I eventually came to terms with it. I’m not a porn star, but my partner of nearly eight years was.
For those of you who have the opinion that it’s impossible for a porn star to have a “normal” love life, let me inform you that you are wrong.
